How can I find true love

True love is an emotional bond, commitment, trust, mutual respect, peace, and understanding where both partners feel seen, valued, and supported in their growth and happiness.

True love is important among partners, a love that is genuine and can stand the test of time, It forges into a long-lasting relationship.

Many people often misinterpret true love by begging to be loved, trying their best to make a partner see them for what they are worth. And we keep searching for love in the wrong places.

And I want you to know that true love exist and will happen for you.

Love comes to those who wait.

Do you really know what true love means

True love involves deep irresistible feeling, mutual love and respect, with physical desires that are healthy. True love heals the broken, it is a faster doctor to those who find it.

It goes beyond the things we see, beyond giving of gift, and little outings. True love is when you can connect with someone, understand their desires and be quick to listen and solve their issues. 

Majority of the time, you are unaware of all that you are doing, love is like a spirit with a guiding light. It fleshes out the pain, hurts, and regrets you might have gotten from your past relationships and bring out a new nature in you.

True love comes about with being aware of your growth as a person with a matured mind.

A younger relationship breaks so easily, because the partners involved haven’t experienced much from life and are doing things the way hey feel it should be, rather than from a place of self awareness and maturity. 

Even when you are in a relationship with your true love, there can be argument, fights, characters that you do not appreciate in your partner, but with a matured mind, you can easily correct them and place them back on the right track, and by so doing they will love and respect you more.

Moreover, infatuation is different from lasting love. 

We often tend to take infatuation for lasting love, and then we waste our times on partners that have no feelings or commitment towards us. 

It’s important to know that someone who is just infatuated with you is only treating you nice, perhaps because they want something from you or are using you to pass time away from their ex-partners.

Becoming the best version of you

The mistake we often commit is that we search for true love and neglect our own self. Your body, your outfit, your carriage, your charisma is as important as anything while trying to find true love so that you will not misinterpret who you are to the world.

Take care of yourself, your body especially. Eat more if you are slim or underweight, ain the right amount of weight, it will attract the right person to you.

Dress well, put on your best outfit every time, and make use of layering, it can be a blazer, a jean jacket, irrespective of your gender, wear perfumes, smell nice, accessorize with jewelries that suit your color tone perfectly. 

You are beautiful, you are handsome, it’s high time you start looking like it.

Don’t wait until you find a partner, start now in your singleness, then you will find a perfect partner.

Read books that will help you, you need to grow, learn about dating and relationship so that you will not be the one to destroy your relationship when true love finally finds you. 

Listen to messages on love from religious perspective and from social perspective, it will guide you aright.

Where can you find true love

I would say, let love come to you.

For the ladies, wait, be patient. It’s not your job to search for love, nor to beg a man to love you. Respect yourself enough to know that you matter, no matter your past, or whatever anyone has said about your love life. 

Learn to turn a deaf hear to the critics of others and focus on your self, be sweet to yourself and always be in the right place, love will find you.

For the men, you can find your true love anywhere, you will absolutely know when it’s the right person, you won’t have to fight, you won’t have to struggle with love. It will happen naturally, and you will be at peace with the person. 

You are to find the ladies, but not in a needy manner, find true love in a way that you will not lose yourself. Love yourself, take care of your health and work on your growth, that way if you speak to a Lady she will eventually give you a chance and if she rejects you, give her time, or you move on.

You can meet your true love anywhere

Through interest and hobbies – it is so easy to find true love when you are often together, the problem is we are always looking for that perfect partner, like the ones we see in romance nove.

meanwhile that person you call a close friend is just as perfect as a Cinderella or your prince charming. Love comes to everyone in different ways.

Expand your social circle, meet new people, and grow along with them, let things flow naturally, true love might be waiting for you, don’t force connections, attend birthdays, weddings, parties, family gathering and official meetings, always take a chance to speak to someone new, associate, a glass of water given to someone can lead to a long-lasting love.

People go further to use online platforms and dating apps, it might seem fun, but I’d say it’s a little bit risky, but if you are ready to take the risk, then go get your prince charming and Cinderella.

With all this said, meeting people in real life is so important, you get to know their character, the way they treat others, even how they relate to someone who has offended them, it makes it a way for you to know how they will treat you. 

For instance if a guy loves a lady, and then they happen to attend the same social gathering, if she reacts badly or curses out a waiter or anyone for stepping on her toes, he could lose feeling for her. 

It is important to carry yourself with grace and charisma in order to find true love. 

Work and straighten up those characters, in fact always pretend that the love of your life is watching you, so that you can always be conscious of everything you are doing, overtime you will turn out to have a better character.

How can you know true love

By being patient and persistence, true love for some people may take time and for others may come easily. 

So whichever way, be patient. Don’t be needy. Find something doing, that will take your mind off that love, something that will give you a sense of purpose. 

True love needs patience. Stop looking for a fast-paced love, this type of relationship don’t last.

Follow the gentle leading of your man, let him guide you, in fact don’t rush to go in a date, start with simply chatting, phone calls, meeting in public environments, give the relationship time to grow and develop into something much stronger.

The waiting is important, know that anything worth waiting for will be worth the wait.

There may be challenges, hurts, pain but at the end, you will be glad you followed your heart.

Keep an open mind

Be open, stop being closed-minded, waiting for everything in a way that you know. 

Things happens in different way, you may meet love in a bus, accept it, if it is love you will know. 

Your partner may not be the flower and chocolate boy, maybe his own love language is to help you grow and make you feel safe, just have an open mind to love, let it guide you

Conclusion

Put god in everything you are doing, pray for the kind of true love you want to experience, the journey at the beginning may not look like it, but towards the middle there will be a sudden shift. Love comes to those who trust in it.

True love is not hard to find, it is as easy as any other things in the world, keep your hopes high, and believe in it.

Do not give up hope, you will find true love, and it will stay, just love yourself and follow these wonderful tips.